If you’ve been labeled: Perfectionist. Black Sheep. Strong One. Perfect Child. Unwanted. Unworthy. Unloveable. Welcome home! You belong here.
We all have things about ourselves we try to change, ignore, or hide. But what would it look like if you embraced your thing(s), exchanging the labels and lies for truth and freedom? Being Mixed was my “thing.” After 30 years of passing as White, I learned to love my God-given blend. You too can learn to embrace the thing(s) you keep hidden and live in the freedom of who you were created to be. Curious? Click to learn more.
Mixed.ology is a community that includes weekly(ish) articles, resources & encouragement to help you learn to love your God-given blend. Wherever you are on the journey, you’ll find a safe space, full of grace, as you begin to fully embrace the skin you’re in.
Not Mixed. No worries. Mixed.ology is for everyone! While I share my Mixed-race experiences, themes of identity, self-worth, and belonging are universal. We all have a divine desire to know we’re valued, seen, and loved. We want to know we matter. I pray you’ll discover, maybe for the first time, that YOU MATTER. YOU ARE VALUABLE. YOU BELONG.
Torrie speaks across the county. Her topics include: identity & belonging, self-acceptance & healing, supporting your Mixed Race child/teen, and multiracial/multicultural church unity. She looks forward to serving your team.
It all started with a prayer… Several years ago, I began praying that God would change my heart. I asked Him to give me eyes to see and a heart to love people the way He does. Little did I know, He would flip the script. First, He challenged me to start liking myself. When I finally accepted that God’s love applied to me too, my life completely changed. Like the leper who was healed and told everyone, now I passionately share that the same healing & freedom is waiting for YOU! Read more
Torrie’s voice has been featured on:
Grit & Grace Life Article
3 Ways to Correctly Ask Someone About Their Ethnicity
Propel Women Article
Natural Hair & A Nurturing God: Learning to Embrace How God Creates
The Parable Podcast Podcast
Loving Your God-Given Blend
The Crossing Church Devotional / Amazon
Among Lions: When Culture Shifts
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